That's good, yes... sit down, sit down.

I'm not into humiliation, use or abuse. Although I have a high tolerance for pain, I am not into it for its own sake, the experience of pain itself does nothing for me. However, over many years, I've learned to transform it, and make the experience of it, erotic. And while it heightens and highlights my passions, it doesn't fuel or drive them. I'm not into the S/M culture, although I do play the games, and I guess, in the lingo, I'd be considered a "Top."